Sunday, November 30, 2008
SMALL PRESS SPOTLIGHT: BILINGUAL CHILDREN'S BOOKS
During the holiday season, one of my favorite gift choices for my nieces and godson are books. And since all three are going to be raised bilingual speakers, it's important to encourage literacy in Spanish. I found five titles that will find their way to the tree this year:
Xavier Garza, Charro Claus and the Tejas Kid, Cinco Puntos Press.
(Illustrated by the author)
Here's an original take on the famous Clement Clarke Moore holiday classic. How would the night before Christmas "translate" in a South Texas Valley setting, where St. Nick's Mexican cousin Pancho can lend a hand by distributing gifts to all the children who live along the U.S.-Mexico border? Easy: Charro Claus!
Benjamin Alire Sáenz, A Perfect Season for Dreaming/ Un tiempo perfecto para soñar, Cinco Puntos Press.
(Illustrated by Esau Andrade Valencia)
An elderly gentleman is slowing down in his later years, but not his active imagination. With the need for afternoon siestas comes the time for dreaming up wildly inventive scenes celebrating the cultural experience of a long and rewarding life.
Jorge Argueta, Alfredito Flies Home/ Alfredito regresa volando a su casa, Groundwood Books.
(Illustrated by Luis Garay)
Once refugees from a country ravaged by war and conflict, Alfredito's family has decided to visit El Salvador now that the dust has settled. Surprises both heartbreaking and heartwarming await the family as they reunite with a landscape still healing from its wounds.
Francisco X. Alarcón, Animal Poems of the Iguazú/ Animalario del Iguazú, Children's Book Press.
(Illustrated by Maya Christina González)
This collection of poetry for children is a fun and educational way to raise awareness about the need to preserve the beauty of the South American rainforest. The poems are as delightful and colorful as the depictions of the flora and fauna that make Iguazú National Park a unique and magical place.
Carmen Tafolla and Sharyll Tenayuca, That's Not Fair!: Emma Tenayuca's Struggle for Justice/ ¡No es justo!: La lucha de Emma Tenayuca por la justicia, Wings Press.
(Illustrated by Terry Ybáñez)
Based on the true story about a young woman who led the historic pecan sheller strike in 1920s San Antonio, this book offers valuable lessons about activism and the fight for justice. As the book demonstrates: one is never too young to develop a social consciousness or an appreciation for Mexicans and U.S. labor history.
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Friday, November 28, 2008
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Scott McLemee Ponders Information Overload
A Longtime Friend Remembers John Leonard
Kerry Wood, a longtime friend of John Leonard's, sent us this reminiscence:
It has all been said--everywhere but in the New York Times Book Review section where I expected to see at least a letter to the editor about the death of the man that captained that l ship so capably in its finest years and then was essentially blackballed for a decade.
I can offer nothing to compare with what I have read recently about my friend’s literary stature and accomplishments. I have known John since our high school days in Long Beach, CA, the town he wrote about in "Crybaby of the Western World," my copy of which is on a shelf behind me along with "The Naked Martini" and "Wyke Regis." John won’t be remembered for those early, unsuccessful novels. And who would believe that this man of letters and reviewer of 13,000 books would be a product of Long Beach Wilson High, the school so unfairly characterized in the Hilary Swank movie "Freedom Writers."
I remember playing basketball with him on his driveway while our mothers chatted indoors. I was a good bit taller than John, and if I would score over him from close in he would declare the shot "a minnow" and say it was worth only one point.
I was at Yale when John dropped out of Harvard; the ironies of liberal John Leonard’s going to work for the "National Review," and his staunchly Democrat mother Ruth's relocation to a home on, of all places, Nixon Street, where she still holds on at age 90, something. John had interesting tales about covering the Cuban Missile Crisis for "National Review." I was most amused when he came to UC Berkeley to complete his bachelor's degree. This gifted prose stylist couldn’t produce a Harvard transcript that showed completion of a course corresponding to English IA (or whatever they call it). His admission into and completion of Archibald MacLeish's Creative Writing seminar was insufficient to establish his writing competency. At Harvard he must have had the kind of exemption currently provided by passing the Advanced Placement test. At Cal, he had to take English 1 A and B. Recognizing the absurdity of the situation, his instructor suggested that he merely attend class, sit toward the rear, and work on whichever novel he was writing at the time.
An impoverished graduate student at Berkeley, just released from my army enlistment, I and others found cheap entertainment in picking up a six pack and enjoying the madcap humor of the Nightsounds show John DJed at the KPFA FM studio. A nickel-dime-quarter poker game always followed the show's sign-off. Weekends, John would organize beer-and-softball affairs in Strawberry Canyon. One evening he taught a group of us an egghead game called Botticelli that I have no time to explain.
During the next half-century, our meetings were occasional and widely separated in time. John had made it big. He read and read and read and reviewed in his East 78th St. home in New York City. Second wife Sue and he dined out often; Sue at vegetarian restaurants, John at meat-and-potatoes places. They socialized casually with noteworthy people. What I appreciate most is that he always found time for "noteworthless" old friends like me. When we got together, it never occurred to me that I was trading jokes and memories with the most important living American literary critic. He was just an old pal.
No, we were never extremely close friends. I knew first wife Tiana but never became acquainted with children Amy and Andrew, who were either infants or off at school when I would visit. We enjoyed dinner and conversation with John and second-wife Sue last year. John was always there, always funny and hospitable despite his physical debilities. I recently was made aware of the seriousness of his condition when I telephoned him. He had to run down the several flights of stairs in his home. It was minutes before he could get out a complete sentence. We arranged a meeting time when he would be sufficiently recovered from his weekly chemotherapy treatments to be sociable.
I read that he voted and knew the outcome of the recent presidential election before he died. I hope someone got word to him that a few days earlier, unaware that he was in the hospital, I sent him an email saying we would be in town for a week after Thanksgiving and hoped we could arrange a get-together as we had a year ago. I said I would give him a jingle. This is it, John. You are already missed and will be long remembered by your legion of friends, famous authors and us ordinary folk.--Kerry Wood
Frustration
Now I know both of the dean's associates know about my blog, both are very kind and encouraging however, and though it's weird, I still feel comfortable writing here.
These last two weeks were very frustrating. I have been struggling with two subjects: Microwave and Electronic Communications. The thing is, I know I can get good at them and I know I can love them, but as we have been told many times by our professors: A good communication system requires a good transmitter, a good receiver and a good environment. And it's certain that we have big transmitter problems in these two subjects.
What makes me frustrated is the fact that the seniors in the Electronics dept. study the very same material we study in Microwave, only by a different professor, and they LOVE IT!! This makes me VERY jealous and if it wasn't for our busy schedule, I would've attempted to attend their lectures too!
I exhaust myself so much that the few hours I spend sleeping I always dream of solving problems and deriving equations, and it's like a nightmare, my brain just wouldn't stop obsessing about the whole thing.
Today I decided to do something about it and headed to the room of one of our professors and told him all about my frustration. He promised to do something and I trust it would be good.
I only realize how fast I can talk when I'm frustrated. I go into a fast-forward mode, and let it all out. If the professor wasn't so helpful, I might have very much resorted to crying! But his attitude, and just remembering how much I love and respect him and many other professors in my college, turned the rest of my day to a good one.
And again came the weekend. Like every weekend, we all have HUGE studying plans. But unlike every weekend, I WILL HAVE THESE PLANS DONE, or I'm going to be angry at myself, and I can get really angry so I'd better watch out!
Wish me luck :)
PS: I've been posting some photos of our garden in my Flickr page, if you care to see :)
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Midweek Roundup
NBCC Tech VP Lizzie Skurnick takes time from working on the launch of the upgraded NBCC website and blog to interview Author and Indie Publisher Kelly Link at the 21st annual Indie and Small Press Book Fair in NYC on December 6 at 5 pm.
Marcela Valdes investigates the making and meaning of Roberto Bolaño's final novel "2666."
John Freeman covers the National Book Awards.
David L.Ulin reports on a lost Bob Dylan collaboration.
Jonah Raskin finds Malcolm Gladwell's "The Outliers" "unabashedly inspiring."
Benjamin Lytal says "Americans should be able to read [Clive James's] poetry on its own merits, free from visions of 'Saturday Night Clive.'" But...
Cynthia Haven explores a little-known connection between Czeslaw Miłosz and a controversial Polish saint, Maximilian Kolbe, a Franciscan priest, widely accused of anti-Semitism, who nevertheless died in Auschwitz; before his arrest, his monastery had sheltered several thousand Jews.
Michael O'Donnell reminds us of an old Chicago joke in his review of Jay P. Dolan's "The Irish Americans."
Jacob Silverman thinks about Adam Kirsch and "literary balance" on the VQR website. Silverman, a new blogger at VQR, is a new NBCC member and a finalist in the VQR's young reviewers contest.
'Yeah, I knew you'd say that,' N said. 'But I have this theory. The Quantum Theory of Relationships.'
'You are going to have to explain that,' I said. 'I'm in the bath, it's brain hibernation time.' After a nighttime run, especially in winter, nothing hits the spot like submersion in a hot bath. Nothing. Not even sex.
'Come on, you're a clever girl. You know what I mean.'
I wiggled my toes in the bubbles at the far end. The cat was sitting on the bath rack, eyes half shut, enjoying the steam. He swiped halfheartedly at my feet. 'Know what you mean? Honey, I barely know my Lavoisier from Courvoisier.'
He laughed. 'In a nutshell, it's this. You can't observe a relationship without changing it. If I stop to think about the whys and wherefores, it's destined to fail. I'm happy to let what happens happen for the moment.'
'I like it. Is this another one for N's Little Book of Relationships?'
'Yeah, okay. That brings us up to, what, two pages now?'
'Short enough the get it out in time for Christmas.'
'Now you're talking.'
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Seriously, what is your major malfunction? Is it because you're envious? Insecure? Crowing about our comparative Amazon ranks on Facebook and Twitter - how childish is that? Is being an author just not as exciting or relevant as you imagined it would be? Welcome to the real world, sister.
If you can't see the value in a diversity of voices being recognised as those of genuine women - not ONLY yours - then honey, you have a lot to learn about both feminism and empowerment, the sort of knowledge that comes from deep and radical living, not parroting some shite you saw on the flyleaf of a Germaine Greer two years ago.
And what you can't seem to handle - really, can't handle at all - is that at the heart of it we're on the same side.
That is right. You are on the same side as the whore, because we are both writing about modern women and the choices they make, and why. I write about sex, real sex, and money changing hands doesn't make it less real than yours. The ways in which people use and abuse sex, how women use sexuality and what it does - or doesn't - do to their lives as a result. I am as entitled to do so as you are.
But it is far easier, it would seem, to attack what you refuse to understand. Which is a pity because infighting only serves those on the outside who would put all women's sexuality into a pretty little box.
What I write about is something every depiction of prostitution in this country in recent years has not been permitted to say. There will be no comeuppance. There will be no guilt and shame. And most importantly, there will be no white goddamn knight. Sounds a little like your memoir on dating and mating, no?
Myself, personally, I am enjoying life. Neither in spite of nor because of my past but because I choose to. It is a happy and productive place right now and while an unprovoked attack like yours is unwelcome, it isn't going to keep me up nights. There are other things doing that job at the moment...
Because the series had to pull its punches at the crucial moments, because no one else wants to say these things, I can: I will. I am unrepentant. I make no apologies for my past or what I write. And my future will be no worse than yours as a result.
Blogs: Une fille dans le top 10 ?
A vous de deviner qui ça peut-être. Je ne dirai rien.
Un indice, quand même : ce n'est pas Julie. Je suis vraiment ému de voir la solidarité qui a entouré cette maman "travailleuse pauvre" et SDF avec deux enfants (voir article du Monde) : elle entre directement dans le top 50. C'est grâce à vous, grâce à vos liens.
Voilà qui illumine ma journée...
Mise à jour du 3/12
Vous avez été nombreux à le deviner: c'est la géniale Pénélope Jolicoeur que vous avez propulsée 3e au classement général. Elle le mérite amplement, à la fois pour ses dessins, et pour sa générosite (cf. opération Mon Beau Sapin)
Monday, November 24, 2008
It's Time for Someone to Get Transformed....The Winner is.....
Melanie...I left a coment on your blog.
Now that this contest is over, CQ is working on Thanksgiving Cupcakes...mmmmm....posting on Wednesday!
CQ
The Digital Identity Superhero
I only wonder what will be the next and more interesting dangers the Golden Guardian will protect us from. The "Russian Internet Mafia" is understandable for the first chapter, but too much of a cliché and too easy to be an interesting enemy. What about Google, the OpenID Foundation, the Department of Homeland Security or maybe the "Electronic Health Records Mafia"? A superhero like this could be a great way of explaining the dangers of linkable profiles and bidirectional identity tokens, and also illustrate the magic of zero-knowledge proofs, identity rights agreements, and more.
Green Party supports Mitchikanibikok Inik
Sunday, November 23, 2008
SMALL PRESS SPOTLIGHT: KAREN AN-HWEI LEE
Ardor, Tupelo Press, 2008.
Karen An-hwei Lee is the author of Ardor (Tupelo Press, 2008), In Medias Res (Sarabande Books, 2004), and a chapbook, God's One Hundred Promises (Swan Scythe Press, 2002). Lee has worked as a florist's assistant, mended books in a rare-book archive, grown tissue cultures in a medical lab, and taught music lessons in the field of music therapy for mental health patients. Recipient of a National Endowment for the Arts Grant and the Norma Farber First Book Award from the Poetry Society of America, she chairs the English Department at a faith-based college in southern California, where she is also a novice harpist.
Ardor is a book-length poem that's shaped by a series of fragments, many announced on the left-hand column as letters, dreams and prayers. Slowly, perhaps even seductively, these fragments coalesce to tell a narrative about love, passion, and heartache as experienced perhaps by the blind protagonist in the poem, though this narrative is more abstract than concrete. It's the recurring image of the pomegranate that suggests (despite the many Biblical references) that the story is Greek tragedy--Persephone ascending from and descending into darkness and sleep, so that there's always a second-guessing about what's real and what's imagined. What are your expectations in offering readers such a challenging book, both because it is a book-length poem and because it's difficult to encapsulate and summarize?
Although linguistically intricate, Ardor's internal fugues--prayers, meditations, dreams, letters, jottings--hover transparently, I hope, between the earthly and ecstatic. The language blends an awareness of intimate minutiae with universal desires, such as yearning to love and be loved, to give meaningful names and to inherit one, to seek God and be known, intimately, by God.
I answer this question with one raised by a poet. Anne Carson muses, "What makes a poet, accident or attention?" Both experimentation and linguistic attention can make poetry challenging. While I'm not exhorting all readers to join a revolution in poetic language, it's been noted that language-driven aesthetics are seldom considered accessible by general readerships. Indeed, poetic compression, complexity, and poetry's elliptical qualities--accidents or surprises while paying exquisite attention to language itself--may render poetry and experimental prose difficult, but to paraphrase Toni Morrison, that is what reading is.
I suppose my response is partly about attention to language itself as experience. For instance, in researching how stained glass is made, I discovered the words "leadlight" and "ferramenta." Attention shifted to surprise. The least intentional aspects of writing are often the most crucial to breaking open the geometry of craft. A unifying pulse is revealed, a flagon pours new oil or wine, or a source illuminates the internal architecture of a poem-organism. It's a cell under a light microscope. Transparent envelope with a permeable boundary. Parcel of life. Ecstatic. Protean. Alive. How does a new poem live? Where? In one writing exercise, I ask students to imagine a cell as a transparent room. What furnishes this room? Look inside. What do you see? A mitotic glass pool? A tarnished mirror, a fish vat, a box of clay shards, childhood, a burned orchard, a lake bottom, nebulae, an airplane lying in a debris field? I encourage students to use surprises to shift attention without losing focus.
A cardioid graph appears on the cover of Ardor, another enclosed shape, nearly cellular. Music, medicine, and mathematics are entwined. Cardioids appear in botanical nature, are the sensitivity pattern of certain microphones, and share an etymological root with cardiology. Advancing the quiet etudes introduced by In Medias Res (my first collection of poems), Ardor begins with an image that traces the path of a locus on a circle rotating around another circle of the same radius, forming an epicycloid with a cusp: A heart-shaped cardioid lingers on the margins where acoustical language evaporates or is saturated with fragrance.
I look outside poetry to seek forms which may loan shapes to my writings. To this end, Ardor is a book of sequential cardioids: heart to heart dialogues, mothers and daughters, a blind woman who figures prominently in my writings--readers have inquired, who is this mystery person? A response appears in my next collection, Erythropoiesis--women waiting for their bodies to heal, a hidden water sonnet, a poem that cycles, and an epithalamium or two.
The following is an example of a cycle-poem in Ardor (pp. 10-11). It depicts a woman after a single mastectomy. She's looking in a mirror while putting on a light dress for a wedding:
Coating of time
the color of patina
resembles sherry or amaretto
after putting on a light dress. Lightness:
she wears a corsage to cover the remains.
The flow of blood widens through the heart
as water emerges from a narrow channel;
the flow of blood widens through the heart.
She wears a corsage to cover the remains
after putting on a light dress. Lightness
resembles sherry or amaretto
the color of patina,
coating of time.
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Poetry is also a natural vehicle for synaesthesia, present in Ardor through all the senses. Vowels are warm colors and consonants are cool colors, yielding rich tones, shades, intensities in form of musical perfume. When I was fourteen years old, puzzling aloud the effects of music to my piano teacher, whose name is Fern--I was remarking how a certain Romantic-period waltz sounded green yet was alternately saturated with mellow amber tones, the cork-textured key of E flat--she commented that not everyone experiences language and music in this way. (Arthur Rimbaud's synaesthetic poem "Voyelles" was unknown to me then: "A noir, E blanc, I rouge, U vert, O bleu...") Thereafter, Fern would inquire at the start of a new piece: What color is it? What fragrance? What textures?
I rode my bicycle to flute lessons, a silver open-holed flute with a B foot jouncing in a side basket hooked to the seat. My flute teacher taught me the importance of breathing--the caesura--at the ends of phrases and the skill of varied articulation. I had an off-center embouchure, creating a warm dark tone in the lower registers but split notes in the higher ones, so she taught me to whistle enharmonics. I learned to achieve a focused tone in different registers, to maintain pitch, and to use proper breath support not to break a legato.
Poetry, like music, has pitch, rhythm, dynamics, and registers.
So, I express a hope that readers will find pleasure in light, color, fragrance, and meaning as poetic language engages experience in unconventional ways.
Finally, thoughts to share about the pomegranate: Persephone, absolutely, with seasonal imagery of descent and ascent, death and resurrection. On a personal note, a dear friend shared a Biblical meaning of pomegranates which is "memory-knowledge of good." Without any proper exegesis in the original language whatsoever on my part, I imagine this "memory-knowledge" looks like rich crimson druplets embedded in people's hearts. Additionally, I'm delighted by a reader named Teresa who recently mailed a letter to my post office box with this wonderful prayer inside: "May you be blessed with many blessings as pomegranate seeds, is a Jewish blessing that I pray for you."
Likewise, I pray this blessing for all readers of poetry, near and far.
Letters, dreams and prayers, which are communication through intimacy, create a tone that's distinctly vulnerable and, dare I gender the language, feminine. But this assessment is disrupted by the presence of mathematical quandaries and vocabulary that's straight out of Gray's Anatomy. This creates a tension that mirrors the push-and-pull between the many binaries that appear in the book: man and woman, pleasure and pain, order and chaos. The space of the page becomes conflict-ridden and complex, but it never compromises the beauty of the imagery and the fluidity of the music, even with words like "beta-fructofuranosidase." Who are some of the poets (and perhaps, texts) that you turn to for inspiration and education? What are some of the languages (in the all-inclusive sense of the word) that guide you toward poetry?
Voices returning to me over the years, variously, include Marguerite Duras, Saint Augustine, Clarice Lispector, Octavio Paz, Chuang Hua (Stella Yang Copley), Myung Mi Kim, Arthur Sze, Mei-mei Berssenbrugge; the prophets, gospels, and epistles in the Old & New Testaments; writings of mystic women and early itinerant female preachers, especially ones with fire-in-the-bones. I've written about Virginia Woolf, Theresa Cha, and Kazuo Ishiguro, so these authors are always with me in one way or another. Recently I enjoyed Kiran Desai's Inheritance of Loss, Eileen Tabios' I Take Thee, English, as My Beloved (wherein is the lovely phrase, "poetry as a way of life," and a marriage to poetry complete with a wedding cake and satin bridal train adorned with poems), and Mother Teresa of Calcutta's posthumous Come Be My Light.
Languages I love are the four-tone syllables of Mandarin my parents taught me, translation proficiency in French I acquired in school, conversational Spanish in southern California where I now live, medical language pertaining to life and healing I studied, the language of theology and Biblical studies on the college campus where I teach--eschatological murmurings of parousia, dunamis, pneuma; talk of synoptic gospels L and M versus Q. I take pleasure in translations, linguistic migrations, calque or loan-translation, when new words, yes, even "beta-fructofuranosidase"–-the enzyme bees use to convert nectar to honey--enrich tongues in sweet glossolalia.
A public announcement was made by publisher Jeffrey Levine that Ardor would be the first of three titles that Tupelo Press was committed to printing. This created plenty of buzz in the poetry world, where such multi-book contracts are unheard of. Does this agreement provide comfort that you have a home for your future projects or anxiety that you must certainly write publishable books? Has this shaped or affected the way you consider or revise your current projects?
This promise is a gift, the generous blessing of time. Like bread on the table, it is a "gift of protected liberty," as Ann Lauterbach puts it. Since the collections were already finished at submission, it may seem there's no more pounding coriander seed or manna flakes to make breakfast. However, a poet's labor doesn't end with book-making. New manna--provided for wanderers in the desert wilderness, as poets in American culture often live in forms of exile--still settles on the sand after the frost melts and awaits refining. I must gather it, write it down, otherwise it may vanish at day's end. There is also the irresistible impulse to be daring, to be purer in voice and vision ("what it is" rather than "what is it?"), and to find what is rare. I'm grateful to do all of this. In other words, with the promise of three books, I am free to work on new projects or focus on other areas of writing life instead of sending, waiting, revising, and sending again. At the very least, this gift saves postage; in the long run, it yields peace of mind with a space for travel or reflection.
For the past decade, I labored quietly in relative seclusion, staying out of sight except teaching students on a tiny campus with a serene chapel at its heart. Waking early in the morning, I'd sometimes walk around to see things--my attention is focused in the wee hours, although I prefer to write at night when attention dims to yield room for poetic accidents--to witness a hummingbird flick water onto its sleek green back in a granite fountain, to see magnolias hold out their immense ivory, and touch a bruised violet-skinned fig on the sidewalk. I still wake early and love my prayer walks; this aspect of my life hasn't changed. I do hope to use this gift of time to travel more often to share poetry. I encourage those who want to write, who want to hear--to listen with utmost attention--the music of rare languages, to bear witness to survival in ragged crevices of existence. Concerned less with "what is it?" or whether the manna is viable, I receive this gift not as accident but as generous provision.
(Author Photo: Tracy Estelle Tipton)
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Friday, November 21, 2008
Analog Africa Selection Vol.2
The week I was about to finish the mix I got a message from Julien from www.parisdjs.com one of Europe´s best website when it comes to sharing our passion for worldwide dancefloor oriented music, asking me if I would like to send him a Mix for his site.
So I wrote to the Wire to make sure all is cool and we agreed that they will have it for a week exclusively and that Julien and myself will make it available later. The Wire kindly offered to pay me for the mix but I thought it would be fair to decline the offer.
The initial idea was to make a pure West African Afro-beat/Afro-Funk mix, as I guessed they wanted something that reflected what I was releasing but then, while selecting the tracks, I bumped into few titles from Ethiopia, Angola and Guinea that I have been enjoying a lot in recent months and decided to add them as well.
This mix is also an occasion to celebrate "the Vodoun Effect" Compilation by Orchestre Poly-Rythmo de Cotonou which has been released in France today and will be available in the rest of Europe and in the USA at the end of November.
The mix contains a slower version of the Poly-Rythmo killer track "Se Tche We Djo Mon"
I hope you´ll enjoy it !!!
(S)
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At any rate, I had similar experiences. In fact many sex workers have. Not all, but there is a significant compassionate component to what the job entails. I don't simply means this in massaging a banker's back so he forgets what the FTSE is doing sort of way, though that is important, but being able to compartmentalise (an essential trait for any successful sex worker) also means being able to put aside your own initial reaction to someone and trying to see the encounter through their eyes.
As I've said before, it's a customer service position, not a personal fulfillment odyssey.
Which brings me to one client in particular. Because he was seated on the bed when I arrived at the hotel, I noticed nothing unusual about him. He did seem slight, but one gets used to all types of body sizes and shapes in this job.
'The money is on the desk,' he said, and I slipped the envelope in my bag. Never count the money in front of the client.
He asked me to undress to the level of underwear (requested: bra, stockings with suspenders, knickers over the suspenders - so the stockings could stay on during sex). I did this.
Then, he asked if I would undress him.
And that was when I noticed. The odd angle of his uneven shoulders, his narrow chest, the gouge-like scars. I didn't ask, he offered nothing, and I ran my hands over his body with no hesitation. He asked me to swing his legs onto the bed, and when I did, I saw the walking sticks next to it for the first time.
That client did not reach orgasm but enjoyed the sex. We talked afterwards, he about his upbringing in Africa. His hair was thick and dark and when he said his age I could not believe it. He was much older than he looked, far older than my father! I could see in the moustache and cheekbones a man who, had his health outcome been different, might have been a dashing RAF pilot in some other world. I continued to stroke the unusual topography of his body, lightly over the lumps and odd moles, harder when I reached his (still semi-erect) penis. He, correctly, identified where I was from based on the pronunciation of a single word that came up in conversation. I can't remember if this encounter is in any the books... on the blog, he was mentioned only in passing, and not because of disability. We talked about holidays, about sunshine and the sea.
This is what comes to mind when I read people like Harriet Harman describing selling sex as "truly medieval" and "just so wrong". For her, presumably, her sex drive is constrained neither by opportunity nor the form of her body. She can and, I assume, does have sex as and when (and if) she wants it.
Other people are not in the same position. And surely denying them access the human touch is short-sighted and "truly medieval". I do not believe for a single moment, however, that these campaigners against sex work have a single ounce of compassion for the trafficked women they claim to want to help, so perhaps asking them to have compassion for people who, simply by fate, happen not to have the freedom or opportunity for a fulfilling sex life so many of us take for granted is far too large a request.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
And Winner #8, the Last Winner Is....
This was a squeaker. Nathan Chadwick of North Kansas City,Mo, hit the in-box with Elizabeth Bishop three minutes later, tied with Vikram Johri of New Delhi for second (Vikram was a winner earlier this week). Drew Smith of Austin was four minutes later. an Brady of the Literature Division of the NEA's The Big Read (we love The Big Read) logged in at 7:15 am. Annelise Finegan of Rochester was next, at 7:19 am EST. Author J.P. Smith was correct at 7:34 am EST. Nayyara Rahman was the last to reach us today, from Karachi Pakistan, around 3 pm EST, not long before posting this. Obviously Elizabeth Bishop fans span the globe.
The wrong answers included an intriguing one: Vladimir Nabokov.
Thanks to all who played these past few weeks, and to the authors and their interviewers for offering such rich material.
Good PowerPoint Design - a strategic business tool
Have you ever "sold" a business project to your management or a venture to a financier? Did you ever happen to use PowerPoint or a similar presentation tool? Probably yes. Well, how much time did you invest in your slide deck? Were your slides beautiful?
Those are questions I now always ask my audiences in my keynotes and workshops on the topic of business model innovation. And most often people do not take PowerPoint seriously. However, they should. PowerPoint is a powerful weapon if used correctly! If used wrongly (as is the case for 90% of presentations) it is rather suicidal.
I attribute a substantial part of my success in my keynote speeches and workshops to my PowerPoint presentations. In fact, the design of my slide decks eat up a big part of my preparation time.
Here my learning as to "Good PPT-Design", which I recently presented at a business incubator in Switzerland
NBCC/Paris Review "Name that Author" Contest #8: The Finale
Here is the eighth and final installment. Which NBCC award winner/finalist had this to say when questioned by the Paris Review interviewer?
"As for readings, I gave a reading in 1947 at Wellesley College two months after my first book appeared. And I was sick for days ahead of time. Oh, it was absurd. And then I did one in Washington in ’49 and I was sick again and nobody could hear me. And then I didn’t give any for twenty-six years. I don’t mind reading now. I’ve gotten over my shyness a bit. I think teaching helps. I’ve noticed that teachers aren’t shy. They’re rather aggressive. They get to be, finally."
Send your answer to nationalbookcritics@gmail.com and please put "Name that Author" in the subject heading. And thanks to all for your guesses, accurate or not, over this past two weeks.
How adorable. How naive. How certain to garner column inches. And to utterly fail in its stated intent.
Quite apart from whether it is right to criminalise the act of selling or buying sex - which you can assume I am against - there is the question of what effect, either beneficial or detrimental, attacking the sex trade may have.
I am no great fan of prohibition. In some cases, it can work on a limited basis - the handgun ban, for instance, is easy to enforce because handguns are difficult to obtain and nearly impossible to make. Alcohol prohibition, as demonstrated in the US in the early 20th century, was more difficult: it does not take a genius to make your own spirits. In short, effective banning depends on the ability to completely stem the flow of supply in the hope that demand will dry up as a result.
Whether this is the either a right or effective way to approach a social problem is for better minds than mine to decide - in my opinion, neither situation justified the scale of the response, and neither result was something that could not have been achieved through better means.
Following on from that, how, exactly, can one effectively police the selling of sex? We all have sex organs and (those of us not touched by the credit crisis at least) money. If I, in my home, have a verbal agreement with a man who did not meet me through any advertisement, who then offers me money, how is anyone going to know? No, what this will be doing in effect is policing not prostitution in general, but streetwalking in particular. In other words, targeting the people who are most likely to be at risk of drug abuse and other problems.
The intial idea is to 'name and shame' kerb crawlers, and to impose harsh sentences on men who use the services of trafficked women. As opposed to the more logical route of, say, imposing harsh sentences on those doing the trafficking, which would be difficult but worthwhile. In other words, what Mizz Smith is proposing is shooting at a blank wall and drawing your target around the hole.
We know where this will end, naturally - it is no secret that the real agenda of Harriet Harman and Jacqui Smith is to criminalise prostitution as a whole. By dressing up the early stages in faux-concern for exploited women, they are doing nothing more than putting lipstck on a pig.
And what would be the problem with that, you might say. Give someone time in custody, with access to the various social and mental health services, and that might get them back on their feet.
Ah, there's the rub. I have known a few streetwalkers - years before I went on the game myself. If you're familiar with my books, you will know these as the women my (misguided, optimistic) father was trying to 'help'. A fair number of them were occasional drug users to full-blown addicts and some were homeless; nearly all were single mothers. I came away with a few interesting points of knowledge:
1. If you go to prison with no intention of reforming when you get there, all it provides is a great place to meet new drug connections for when you are out again.
2. Separating a woman from her child, apart from cases of child abuse, is possibly the most detrimental thing that can happen to both of them.
3. Never get your hair dyed in prison. Never.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
National Book Awards 2008
Young People's Literature: Judy Blundell, What I Saw and How I Lied (Scholastic).
Poetry: Mark Doty, Fire to Fire: New and Collected Poems (Harper Collins).
Nonfiction: Annette Gordon-Reed, The Hemingses of Monticello (W.W. Norton & Co.).
Fiction: Peter Matthiessen, Shadow Country (Modern Library).
And the #7 winner is....
Runners up, with the correct answer: Drew Smith of Austin at 5:30 am EST; Gregg Barrios of San Antonio, at 5:32 am EST (what is it with this Texans!), Dennis Loney, Washington, D.C., at 6:00 am EST; Nathan Chadwick in Missouri, at 6:09 am EST; Vikram Johri emailing in from New Delhi at 6:29 am EST, and Sumita Mukherji, Arlington, Mass,6:18 am EST.
Last clue tomorrow!
Release: SQ riot squad arrest 5 Algonquins, including Acting Chief Benjamin Nottaway
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
SQ riot squad arrest 5 Algonquins, including Acting Chief Benjamin Nottaway
Kitiganik/Rapid Lake, Algonquin Territory / - SQ officers and a Riot Squad arrested five Barriere Lake Algonquins, including a targeted arrest of Acting Chief Benjamin Nottaway, after forcing community members off highway 117, during their fourth in a series of blockades over a period of seven hours.
"Chief Nottaway sent a letter to Premier Charest on Monday requesting that the government resolve political issues through negotiations rather than police violence," said community spokesperson Norman Matchewan."Blockades are a tactic of last resort. For two decades now all we've asked is that Quebec and Canada honour signed agreements but they prefer to play with our lives."
As the community was pushed off the highway for the last time at 2:30 pm, riot police broke out of formation to chase and arrest Acting Chief Nottaway. His was the second targeted arrest of the day. Community youth spokesperson Marylynn Poucachiche, mother of five and organizer of the community school, was arrested at one of the morning blockades after being reassured by police that no arrests would be made since protesters had agreed to leave peacefully.
One community member was pushed to the ground and kicked by several SQ officers before being arrested.
"The police dragged him with his head on the ground all the way to the police car," said one community member.
Another woman from the community fell while being pushed back onto the access road leading to the Barriere Lake reserve, and hit her head. She was subsequently arrested.
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Media Contacts:
Norman Matchewan, Barriere Lake spokesperson: 819 – 435 – 2171, 514 - 831 - 6902
Marylynn Poucachiche, Barriere Lake spokesperson: 514 - 893 - 8283, 819 - 860 - 3860
Norman Young, Grand Chief of the Algonquin Nation Secretariat: 819 - 627 - 6869
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Kitiganik/Rapid Lake, Algonquin Territory / - The Barriere Lake Algonquins have blocked highway 117 by gathering in the middle of the road, after Quebec police dismantled their log blockades earlier in the day, and have now been put on notice that the Riot Police will arrive momentarily.
Community spokesperson Marylynn Poucachiche has been arrested for obstruction and mischief and is currently detained.
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Media Contacts:
Norman Matchewan, Barriere Lake spokesperson: 819 – 435 – 2171, 514 - 831 - 6902,
Marylynn Poucachiche, Barriere Lake spokesperson:514 - 893 - 8283, 819 - 860 - 3860
Norman Young, Grand Chief of the Algonquin Nation Secretariat: 819 - 627 - 6869
NBCC/Paris Review "Name that Author" Contest #7
Here is the seventh installment. Which NBCC award winner/finalist had this to say when questioned by the Paris Review interviewer?
"My nature is orderly and observant and scrupulous, and deeply introverted, so life wherever I attempt it turns out to be claustral. Live like a bourgeois, Flaubert suggested, but I was living like that long before I came across Flaubert’s remark."
Send your answer to nationalbookcritics@gmail.com and please put "Name that Author" in the subject heading. And keep an eye out for the winners and the next clue.
Excerpts from Volumes 1 and 2 at Readerville.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
7AM - Algonquins BLOCKADE HWY 117 for a second time
They will maintain the peaceful blockade until both the Canadian and Quebec governments honour their signed agreements that would allow co-management of their traditional territory and resource revenue sharing, and until Canada respects their leadership customs by appointing an observer to witness a leadership selection in accordance with their Customary Governance Code, and in good faith recognize the outcome.
*On this page you will find: a link to photos of the action, quotes, media contacts, background resources, and the press release
Up-to-date photos of the blockade are available HERE
Quotes from Barriere Lake Algonquin Spokespeople:
Marylynn Poucachiche, community spokesperson: "The federal government pretends this is simply an internal issue, but we can only resolve the situation if the federal government appoints an observer to witness a new leadership selection that is truly in accordance with our Customary Governance Code, promises to respect the outcome, and then stops interfering in our internal affairs."
Michel Thusky, community spokesperson: "To avoid their obligations, the federal government has deliberately violated our leadership customs by ousting our Customary Chief and Council. In what amounts to a coup d'etat, they are recognizing a Chief and Council rejected by a community majority. The Quebec government is cooperating with the federal government too because they are using the leadership issue as an excuse to bury the 1991 and 1998 Agreements they signed with our First Nation."
Media Contacts:
Norman Matchewan, a community teacher and part-time police officer who was racially slurred two weeks ago by the assistant of Conservative Minister Lawrence Cannon, the representative in Barriere Lake's riding of Pontiac: 819.435.2171 or 514.831.6902 (c)
Marylynn Poucaciche, community educator and youth representative for Barriere Lake on the Algonquin Tribal Council: 819.860.3860 (c) or 514.893.8283 (c)
Norman Young, Grand Chief of the Algonquin Nation Secretariat: 819.627.6869
Barriere Lake Algonquins' Demands
Resources:
Federal MP, Lawrence Cannon's Message to the Community in Le Droit (22 September 2008)
Norman Matchewan's Response to Lawrence Cannon in Le Droit (26 September 2008)
Trilateral Agreement - discussed in the Royal Commission on Aboriginal Peoples (RCAP)
2007 leadership report by Quebec Superior Court Rhejean Paul
Legal challenge of Federal Government's deposition of Barriere Lake's Customary Chief and Council
Assembly of First Nations briefing note - January 2008
PRESS ADVISORY: Algonquins peacefully blockade highway 117 second time: demand Quebec and Canada respect agreements and Canada stop propping up illegitimate leadership
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Barriere Lake Algonquins peacefully blockade highway 117 in Northern Quebec a second time: despite fears of more police violence, community wants Quebec and Canada to respect agreements and Canada to end interference in leadership selection
Kitiganik/Rapid Lake, Algonquin Territory / - This morning at 7:30am, Barriere Lake community members of all ages and their supporters once again peacefully blockaded highway 117 outside their reserve, demanding that Quebec and Canada send in negotiators rather than resort to police violence. During the Algonquin's first blockade on October 6th, 2008, Quebec police used tear gas and "pain compliance" techniques against a peaceful crowd that included Elders, youth, and children, arrested nine people, and hospitalized a Customary Councillor after hitting him in the chest with a tear-gas canister, drawing criticism from international human rights groups, the Chiefs of Ontario, and the Christian Peacemakers Team. [ http://blip.tv/file/1391794 ]
The Algonquins promise to maintain the blockade until Canada and Quebec commit in writing to honour their agreements and Canada appoints an observer to witness and respect the outcome of a new leadership selection in Barriere Lake in accordance with their Customary Governance Code.
"Instead of doing the dirty work of the federal government, Quebec should implement its agreements and immediately lobby the federal government to deal fairly with our community," said Norman Matchewan, a community spokesperson on-site at the blockade. "Charest's brutal treatment of our community shows his government has absolutely no respect for the rights of Indigenous peoples, which should be an urgent matter of debate during the provincial election."
Barriere Lake wants Canada and Quebec to uphold signed agreements, dating back to the 1991 Trilateral Agreement, a landmark sustainable development and resource co-management agreement praised by the United Nations and the Royal Commission on Aboriginal Peoples. Canada has been in breach of the agreement since 2001. Quebec signed a complementary Bilateral agreement in 1998, but has stalled since two former Quebec Cabinet Ministers, Quebec special representative John Ciaccia and Barriere Lake special representative Clifford Lincoln, made recommendations for the agreement's implementation in 2006.
"To avoid their obligations, the federal government has deliberately violated our leadership customs by ousting our Customary Chief and Council," said Matchewan. "In what amounts to a coup d'etat, they are recognizing a Chief and Council rejected by a community majority. The Quebec government is cooperating with the federal government because they are using the leadership issue as an excuse to bury the 1991 and 1998 Agreements they signed with our First Nation."
In November 2007 the legitimate leadership of Barriere Lake had issued a ban on new forestry operations in the Trilateral Territory until Quebec implemented their agreements, but the province and forestry companies have used the leadership change as an opportunity to cut new logging roads [in preparation for logging operations] without permission from the legitimate Barriere Lake representatives.
On March 10th, 2008, for the third time in 12 years, the Government of Canada interfered in Barriere Lake's internal customary governance. They rescinded recognition of the Customary Chief and Council and recognized individuals whom the Barriere Lake Elder's Council says were not selected in accordance with their Customary Governance Code.
"The federal government pretends this is simply an internal issue," says Marylynn Poucachiche, another Barriere Lake spokesperson on-site. "But we can only resolve the situation if the federal government appoints an observer to witness a new leadership selection that is truly in accordance with our Customary Governance Code, promises to respect the outcome, and then stops interfering in our internal affairs."
In 2007, Quebec Superior Court Judge Rejean Paul issued a report that concluded that the current faction recognized by the federal government was a "small minority" that "didn't respect the Customary Governance Code" in an alleged leadership selection in 2006 [2]. The federal government recognized this minority faction after they conducted another alleged leadership selection in January 2008, even though an observer's report the government relied on stated there was no "guarantee" that the Customary Governance Code was respected [3].
The Algonquin Nation Secretariat, the Tribal Council representing three Algonquin communities including Barriere Lake, continues to recognize and work with Customary Chief Benjamin Nottaway and his Council.
In Montreal at noon, supporters of Barriere Lake will rally in front of the office of Premier Jean Charest's at the southeast corner of McGill College and Sherbrooke.
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Media Contacts:
Norman Matchewan, Barriere Lake spokesperson: 819 – 435 – 2171 or 514 - 831 - 6902
Marylynn Poucachiche, Barriere Lake spokesperson: 819 - 860 - 3860 or 514 - 893 - 8283
Norman Young, Grand Chief of the Algonquin Nation Secretariat: 819 - 627 - 6869
Another Winner, #6
Among the incorrect answers (one of which arrived at 4:42 am, making it the quickest answer, albeit wrong): Joyce Carol Oates, E. Annie Proulx, John Updike, Jane Smiley, Anita Brookner, Mary McCarthy, Harold Pinter, Richard Yates, and Jan Morris.
Gregg Barrios in San Antonio was first runner-up with the correct answer (Alice Munro), clocking in at 5:56 am EST with the correct answer, followed by Sumita Mukherji (at 6:31 am EST), (Drew Smith in Austin (6:38 am EST),Gary W Thomson in Omaha(6:44 am EST), Annelise Finegan in Rochester at 7:53 am EST, and Deb Fowler at 8:49 am EST.
Keep an eye out for the seventh installment tomorrow.
NBCC/Paris Review "Name that Author" Contest #6
Here is the sixth installment. Which NBCC award winner/finalist had this to say when questioned by the Paris Review interviewer?
"I lived in the suburbs…the men didn’t like you to talk, and the women didn’t like it either. Then I moved to more of a mixed suburb, not all young couples and I made great friends there. We talked about books and scandal and laughed at things like high-school girls. That’s something I’d like to write about and haven’t, that subversive society of young women, all keeping each other alive."
Send your answer to nationalbookcritics@gmail.com and please put "Name that Author" in the subject heading.
Monday, November 17, 2008
DEMONSTRATION IN SOLIDARITY WITH BARRIERE LAKE A CALL FOR SOLIDARITY AND SUPPORT!
WEDNESDAY, NOV 19, 2008, NOON
In front of Jean Charest's office
corner of McGill College & Sherbrooke
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* bring banners, signs, placards, noise-makers...
Join Barriere Lake Solidarity in a demonstration to call on Premier Charest to STOP using riot police, tear gas and pain compliance and START honouring signed agreements with Barriere Lake Algonquins.
In early October, as a method of last resort, families from the Algonquin community of Barriere Lake blockaded highway 117 in northern Quebec, demanding that the Federal and Quebec governments uphold the agreements they signed with the community, and stop imposing illegitimate leadership on the community in order to avoid their responsibilities.
Norman Matchewan, community youth spokesperson says, "Both the federal and provincial governments have treated us with contempt, refusing to respect the agreements they've signed with us. We've exhausted all our political options, but they've ignored or dismissed our community, leaving us with no choice but to peacefully blockade the highway to force the government to deal fairly with us."
Instead of sending in negotiators, honouring signed agreements and sending an observer for their leadership re-selection, dozens of riot cops overran the families who were peacefully demonstrating. Riot cops surrounded the area, and launched tear gas canisters, one of which hit a disabled community member in the chest. Nine people, including an elder, a pregnant woman, and two minors, were arrested. Eight demonstrators remained locked down to concrete-filled barrels, but police used "pain compliance"--roughly, torture--to force them to let go, and be arrested.
There have been many outcries against the actions taken by Charest's government. Angus Toulouse, Ontario Regional Chief, in a letter to Charest on October 10th wrote, "the leadership of the First Nations of Ontario are very concerned regarding the approach taken by the SQ against the ABL…Resorting to aggressive police action is clearly regrettable and further does not address the root causes of this situation." Several European human rights organizations recently supported Barriere Lake's demands and condemned police actions taken against the community.
Barriere Lake's List of Demands:
1. That the Government of Canada agree to respect the outcome of a new leadership re-selection process, with outside observers, recognize the resulting Customary Chief and Council, and cease all interference in the internal governance of Barriere Lake.
2. That the Government of Canada agree to the immediate incorporation of an Algonquin language and culture program into the primary school curriculum.
3. That the Government of Canada honour signed agreements with Barriere Lake, including the Trilateral, the Memorandum of Mutual Intent, and the Special Provisions, all of which it has illegally terminated.
4. That the Government of Canada revoke Third Party Management, which was imposed unjustly on Barriere Lake.
5. That the Province of Quebec honour signed agreements with Barriere Lake, including the 1991 Trilateral and 1998 Bilateral agreements, and adopt for implementation the Lincoln-Ciaccia joint recommendations, including $1.5 million in resource-revenue sharing.
6. That the Government of Canada and the Province of Quebec initiate a judicial inquiry into the Quebec Regional Office of the Department of Indian Affairs' treatment of Barriere Lake and other First Nations who may request to be included.
7. That the Government of Quebec, in consultation with First Nations, conduct a review of the recommendations of the Ontario Ipperwash Commission for guidance towards improving Quebec-First Nation relations and the SQ's procedures during policing of First Nation communities.
Prop 8 and DoMA: Defining Marriage Isn't the Issue
After the election, a close liberal friend of mine, who happens to be Jewish, said that she and her husband went to the dictionary to check the definition of the word “marriage” to help guide their vote on Prop 8. They wanted clarification on how marriage is defined. I assume they felt that by defining marriage clearly, this would give them direction for granting equal rights to gay men and lesbians.
Hmmm?!
She said her dictionary defined marriage as a union between a man and a woman. (As does my older Webster’s dictionary.) She then asked, “I wonder how your Oxford English Dictionary (OED) defines marriage?” So, for those who like to swallow their sense of equality with a big dose of dictionary, I submit the definition of “marriage” from volume IX of the XX volume OED which reads, “The condition of being a husband or wife; the relation between married persons; spousehood, wedlock.” Spousehood? And, no mention of man or woman. Those English must have known something which must have gotten lost in translation on the trip across the Atlantic. And, for those who like to play word games, notice the word “or” between husband or wife and not the word “and.” Oh, there could be two wives? Two husbands? A female as husband or a male as wife? My mind is reeling with possibilities.
I then thought that a better place to look in the dictionary for guidance on how to vote on same-sex marriage would be the word “equal.” My OED says that equal means, “Identical in amount; neither less nor greater…having the same measure, number, value, intensity, etc.” So, in the context of constitutional equality, I would expect to see next to the definition of equality a picture of Martin Luther King or Mahatma Gandhi. Maybe in my friend’s dictionary there would be a picture of Strom Thurmond or Rush Limbaugh.
Not a lot of wiggle room with the word “equal.”
For years, people have told me that I need to compromise on the matter of the state permitting legal marriage for the GLBT community. Accept second-class citizenship in the form of civil union, they say -- it's good enough. Many gay and lesbian people do accept the diminishment meekly in the interest of peace. Good on them. Civil union is not equal, so it cannot be good enough. Ever. Grown-up people can and should compromise whenever possible, and on any other issue, I certainly am willing to make allowances or take less than I truly require or want. But not when it comes to equality: As the Supreme Court ruled a half-century ago, separate but equal isn't equal. We are either equal or we are not. This nation claims to offer equality under secular law for all. Therefore, equality, in a legal or non-theocratic sense, cannot be compromised.
Look it up:
equality (noun) - i kwóllətee, ee kwóllətee
equal (noun) - i kwól, ee kwól
MSN Encarta:
state of being equal: rights, treatment, quantity, or value equal to all others in a specific group
* full equality under the law
Merriam-Webster:
the quality or state of being equal (of the same measure, quantity, amount, or number as another; identical in mathematical value or logical denotation; equivalent - like in quality, nature, or status c: like for each member of a group, class, or society)
* provide equal employment opportunities>
Merriam-Webster Law Dictionary:
the quality or state of being equal: as 1. : sameness or equivalence in number, quantity, or measure 2.: likeness or sameness in quality, power, status, or degree
Dictionary.com:
the state or quality of being equal; correspondence in quantity, degree, value, rank, or ability; equal - as great as; the same as (often fol. by to or with); like or alike in quantity, degree, value, etc.; of the same rank, ability, merit, etc.; evenly proportioned or balanced; uniform in operation or effect; adequate or sufficient in quantity or degree; having adequate powers, ability, or means; impartial or equitable
American Heritage Dictionary:
The state or quality of being equal
WordNet:
the quality of being the same in quantity or measure or value or status
Unless one wants a theocracy, nope, you won't find wiggle room here. Equal is equal, period. The United States and all but two states in the union do not provide equality for all. I don't care how religious one claims to be -- no decent person should accept inequality. Frankly, I don't see how they could. And if the US is supposedly the greatest, fairest nation on the planet, it should act like it and acknowledge the full equality of all its citizens.
A Transforming Contest Having Nothing to do With Cupcakes
Okay...we haven't had a contest in a long, long time...but now the contest is back! This PRIZE is the Star Wars Transformers set shown above: Star Wars Transformers Set Millennium Falcon + Bonus Vehicles! This is where Han Solo and Chewbacca Combine become the Millennium Falcon!
The box has never been opened and here's what it contains: Star Wars Transformers 2-figure Set (Millennium Falcon plus a bonus of two titanium vehicles and Han Solo and Chewbacca mini figures. The set features electronic lights and sounds and you can hear sounds and phrases from the movie!
HERE ARE THE RULES: Comment on this blog entry in 100 words or less explaining why you want this transformers set. The deadline is Sunday, Nov. 23 at 9:00 p.m. I will announce the winner Monday, Nov. 24 by noon.
May the Force be with you.
CQ
- eaten a pork pie, coronation chicken, or a scampi (whatever that is). I don't remember ever having had a banger, though it's possible I did and have since purged the experience from my memory banks.
- had a threesome with two men (preferably bi). Definitely have not accidentally done so and purged the memory of the experience afterwards. This upsets me probably more than it should.
- tried drugs, apart from:
a. the time in book 1 when a client was using poppers, and I'm not sure that counts, and
b. alcohol. Obviously. - been to Liverpool. And until a fortnight ago, Wales would also have been on that list.
- been able to remember my mother's birthday. I am usually good with dates, so this is particularly unusual.
- found negligees exciting. Let me see, you want me to take off my clothes, put on clothes, then take those clothes off straightaway? And what was the problem with good old knickers, stockings, and bra again?
- imagined what my wedding dress might look like, or what my children's names would be, or what my first name would look like next to someone else's surname. (That said, in the last 24 hours I have identified an ale that should be served at my wedding, should such event ever occur. Priorities, people.)
- chosen mayonnaise when salad cream was an option. Ever.
- caught my parents having sex. And now they're divorced, never will. Whew.
- been attracted to a man who didn't, at least in some small way, remind me of my father. In its most basic incarnation this usually translates as significantly taller than me.
Société: Mère, SDF et blogueuse
Soutenons Julie par nos liens vers son blog : http://untempsderetard.blogspot.com/
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Agbadza
Side 1
Side 2
This is a tape of agbadza music, which hs its roots in a historical war dance. It's still commonly performed along the coast of West Africa, around eastern Ghana and Togo and Benin.
The agbadza dance is pretty distinct. This Togolese hip-hop video shows people dancing agbadza (flapping arm movement), among other things...
Yoro Diallo dit Fernando Moutchatcha
Face A
Talassa
Dona
Manima
Soumba
Face B
Moutchatcha
Franyra
Horma
San Wo San
I recommend the song "San Wo San." Tangled guitars on repeat like that does it for me approx seven days a week. Anyone know anything about this guy Mutchatcha?
Friday, November 14, 2008
Upcoming Events!
*WHEN: Saturday, November 29th
*WHERE: Centre for Media Alternatives - 2033 St. Laurent
*COST: $5-10 or bring a RADIO
7pm - Film Screening: A Little Bit of So Much Truth (93 minutes, 2006)
9pm - Dance Party: featuring DJ Aaron Maiden & DJ Medja
Click HERE for more info.
My ex, the one known here as the Boy, is a PC user. I am a Mac user. This week, in a misguided attempt to win me back, he posted a birthday gift - a 320 gig external hard drive stuffed with the entire digital record of our time together. Photos, videos, the lot.
Only the Boy, he is not what we would call super tech-savvy. Because on plugging the drive into my Mac - fully intending to reformat the disk and erase over all of that shite for I am, if nothing else, disinclined to look gift horses in the mouth - I scanned through the folders to see first if there were any mementoes worth saving.
What do you think I found, alongside all the soppily renamed, weren't-we-great-together rest? Only the Recycle Bin folder, of course. Which he had neglected to empty.
Oh, PC. You really aren't very clever, are you?
And there were the real photos. The ones of him and that other woman, the one whose saggy, hippo-like form I'd found on my phone all those months ago. Here they were at his works do, him struggling to hold her aloft. Here she was in his bedroom, lounging in what might euphemistically be called a Rubenesque attitude. Here she was in an improvised toga at a fancy dress party, the mechanics of which garment seemed to rely entirely on the folds of fat under her arms to protect her dignity. Here was the rest of his holiday in New York, the week he spent there after I left, with... well, I don't believe you need to be told. Yes, here, in excruciating detail - as if the other photos weren't nearly enough - was the record of his other relationship with the potato-faced frump he judged superior to me.
So, how do you think I felt? Angry? Detached? Deflated? None of the above actually. What I felt was gratitude. Gratitude and happiness. It was as if a shadow falling over my life had suddenly retreated, showing me the beautiful day it was hiding all along.
In point of fact it is one of the best and most timely gifts I have ever received. This proves, as if proof were needed, what sort of a man he is and how much better my life is now. While I will probably always be appalled to have wasted so much of my life and love on him, at least I got three books' worth of content out of the fucker. She can have the rest of him and good riddance. This is exactly what I needed, the final piece in the puzzle of letting go.